Haha, whoo!! :p
Uh, I guess Imma contradict those for advice to girls about guys!! Just because I got to thinking lol...
1.) Let your boyfriend talk to pretty girls. If you accuse him of liking another girl, it will only hurt both of you. You need trust in your relationship, and if you don't have it, either your relationship is done or your most likely too immature to be having one. I know all of this now, trust me I speak from experience.
2.) Just be yourself. If you have a flirty personality that loves to give compliments, use it!! That was how Tom was lol. Just be kind, but stay true to you, also!!
3.) YES. When it comes to kissing, you guys should discuss it ahead of time if it's okay, but PLEASE make the first move!! It was so nerve-wracking, but it turned out A-OK (well, better than that :)). XDXDXDXDXD
4.) Girls, be kind. I know it is hard to not tell ya boy things, or to not snap or throw attitude towards, but PLEASE, PLEASE save some of it for just your friends!! Don't dump everything on him, and remember, your emotions and attitude can hurt anyone, him included. Plus, self-control is a very attractive trait ;) Be careful how you treat him- it's not like he has to love you like with family- he chose to love you!!
5.) Super affectionate is nice, but all girls are different. Tom was very clingy, but sometimes, it could be a little... Obnoxious?? I guess?? Sometimes he would text at the WORST moments haha!! Actually, for a week (spring break) we texted EVERYDAY, ALL DAY XD Just know your girl. And girls, know your guy.
Just be careful out there. Seriously. Don't get too involved, or else you'll get hurt. Know the person you're dating. Seriously, if you just noticed this cute boy in class, and you like him and he thinks your also cute, prob not a good idea. Make sure they are a CLOSE friend.
Good luck!!