My friend likes my crush

Question

I have a friend named Angela, who asked my crush James out on a date. He said no but she is still saying they are dating.  I want to confront her but I don't want to ruin our friendship.

WHAT DO I DO????

Comments

Well do you REALLY like this guy? If so then tell her she will feel bad for you if she is nice then your ok and if you don’t like this guy than well you’ll just have to live with it and remember that if it does not kill you then your getting stronger. And yeah sorry!

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If you really like him you should confront your friend and if she knows you like him that's just wrong. But you could try saying something like "Hey why do you keep saying you too are dating when your not" And see what she says. My friend Emersen likes my crush and she is obsessed with him and I don't really like it I don't confront her because she likes him very much but he doesn't like her. So I think you should say to Angela if she knows you like him, Say something like "Hey Angela I just wanted to ask why are you asking James out when you know I like him? I'm sorry but if that's the stuff your going to do then I can't continue this friendship" And that's okay to say..If she is a good enough friend she should not ask your crush out.. Good luck with this I hope you do this!!

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So my friend Kira has a crush on my crush and she knows i really really like him and he has a crush on her and I don't know what to do! then i told her that i was not friends with her then when i went back home i started to cry what do I do!I hate her soooooo Much!

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Girlll you went through the exact thing I did. So I had a crush on this boy for a year and now im in 7th grade so i liked him all the way up till the beginning of 7th grade and my friend started to like him and "forgot" i liked him and then they started dating. I went home and I tried to hold on from my tears but then me and my parents were in the car and I told them what happened and I broke down so hard and I was so angry so I stopped liking him and now I like somebody else- but not the point I think you should just move on because there is no sense in liking him if he already likes somebody. So either you still keep feelings for him and wait or you just stop. Up to you. But defenitly update us on monday!

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But I really like him I can't stop he is sooo cute . but next year since my sister will be in 6th grade i will tell him i liked him since the beginning of the year! but i am scared.

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well yeah its hard to get over your crush but maybe just leave him alone for a bit if hes talking to your friend? But yeah it does suck considering that she is your friend but you can't control her feelings and she can't control yours. So both of you guys are kinda in the middle right here. What grade are you in?

Answer 1

tell him how you feel 

Answer 2

Well my friend likes my crush i really don't know what to do.She says she doesn't know if she likes him but all they do is flirt i get jealous  because she know i likes him or we used to talk but it seems like she doesn't care.WHAT DO I DO?

Answer 3

I had that problem too

i told my friend ( she isn't really my friend she's so mean ) " you know i like him . if you want to be with him it's fine by me but if you broke his heart I'm going to date him " I knew he's going to break up with her in a weak. And it happened like I thought. Now I'm dating him

 

I'm sorry if there are mistakes in my comment because english isn't my real language

Comments

That's fine! Just curious what is your real language?

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My real language is sinhala

I'm a sri lankain

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Cool

Answer 4

Go here: https://www.relationshiptalk.net/my-best-friend-likes-my-crush-what-do-i-do-926137.html

Also, tell a trusted person or make a diary to control your feelings. And I hope you will be happy soon!

I'm a kid, so I can't suggest something that good, but good luck! ^u^

Answer 5

If you want to tell her,but not make her upset then maybe write it in a card.

I hope it helps.

Answer 6

In my thought view, you and your friend can be friends for a very long time, but you can risk that by confronting her. As for your crush, 99.9% of relationships in highschool never really last anyway. So if you do confront your friend, you risk losing her but your chances of a temporary highschool relationship slightly increase, and if you don't you and your friend will stay friends and you can eventually get over your crush. This is just my opinion with the information you gave.

Answer 7

This is the same situation that happened in Liv and Maddie. If u guys have been friends for a long time, she should know that, falling for the guy that is the nearest to your boyfriend, will hurt your feelings.

Comments

You watch Liv and Maddie too!Sorry this has nothing to do with the question but I love all Liv and Maddie fans!

Answer 8

Girl same! Just act like everything is normal and keep being her friend! Look at how your friend and your crush interact. If he is not into her, jump at the opportunity. If he is in to her, maybe he is not the guy for you. There are plenty of fish in the sea!

Answer 9

Me and my friend have the same problem. Are you really friends ?

Comments

Uh, yeah, we have been friends for YEARS!

Answer 10

I suggest you get to him first. It may cause a rivalry, but if you really like this person, then do it. I've never been in your shoes, so I don't have anything really helpful, sorry!