Hi! Here I just wanted to share how I figured out I was genderfluid, omnisexual, and aromantic.
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Genderfluid: Experiencing gender "fluidity"; not having one fixed gender.
I knew I was gender fluid when I started feeling masculine/wanting to present masc one day but wanting to be more fem the next. I also wanted my chest one day but not the next. I often cried because I literally could not make myself look masculine in any way. I was also incredibly jealous of boys, with they're naturally flat chests. I wanted to be like them. I was also totally okay with being called a boy/girl/anything.
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Aromantic: Feeling little to no romantic attraction.
My parents always told me that as a kid I never wanted to hug/kiss my relatives. Even when I was as young as 2 years old I just hated anything even remotely romantic/touchy.
I also have a memory of myself in 3rd grade (8-9 years old), when I had a friend over. We were talking about crushes and she asked me if I had any, as she listed out all of hers. Even as a 9 year old, this made me uncomfortable and I told her the truth: I didn't have any.
I am in 6th grade (end of 6th grade/heading into 7th) and I have only ever had one real "crush" but they only lasted about 3 months before I got over them. I also hate the idea of being in a relationship and would prefer to be by myself. The thought of even remotely dating/being interested in someone makes me literally gag.
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Omnisexual: Liking all genders but gender being a factor in their attraction.
My sexuality journey went like this:
Im straight! Wait, no that girl is really hot..No im not lesbian am i? Okay, yes im lesbian. But that guy is also really handsome...but ew, dating is disgusting and relationships make me gag... Maybe im Pan then. I don't really care about gender...or do i? Okay, maybe im omni. Yes, definitely omni.
As an omni person I can say that I prefer to be with no-men rather than men, but that's not to say I wouldn't date a man. I am a romantic tho, so finding love isn't exactly easy, and falling in love is even more difficult. You may be asking, "But aren't Pansexual and Omnisexual the same?". well, yes and no. Pansexual people identify as " genderblind", meaning they don't care what gender someone is and are blind to it. Omni people, on the other hand, notice gender but simply do not care.
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I hope this helped you, and feel free to share your LGBTQ+ stories if you have them. If I missed anything or messed something up please tell me lol. I wrote this on 2 hours of sleep and im going to bed now, bye! :D
