I finally let it out

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I finally let it out

asked Oct 20, 2023 in Personal by AdiTheNatureGirl (100k points)

So everyone knows about my toxic friend experience, and how I keep all my tears bottled up for about 14 months.

WELL, YESTURDAY I COULDN'T HOLD IT IN ANYMORE

RIVER OF TEARS

AND AT THE WORST TIME: RECESS

ok, the reason I couldn't hold it in anymore is bc my (very very very) toxic bff sits next to me at lunch (we have assigned seats ugh) and she was insulting my style and music taste, and I just sat there while she did it.

AND THE BOY WHO SITS ACROSS FROM ME WAS BACKING HER UP-

anyways, i was holding in the tears until i came outside and my ACTUAL bff asked me if i was ok and ya yk what happened next.

Idk what to do bc it happens every day and I just bottle up the tears like I dont care-

Luckily my friend group does a weekly checkup on everyone in the group so we can talk about problems and everyone had something bad to say about my (very very very) toxic bff.

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imnayeon · Answer 1 · 2023-10-21T07:02:16+0000

Are you still friends with her? If so, then why?

She obviously is not a good friend and it would be best for you to not be around her.

I have assigned seating too (the school was tired of people not talking to other grades and forming cliques and stuff), and I can agree it sucks. Are you allowed to move around the table (or whatever you sit at) to maybe get away from them?

I'm so sorry that she was so mean to you. No one deserves to be treated like that. I hope your situation will get better (it will someday), and I know you can get through it! Good luck on anything you do!

Btw, even though she is not nice to you, try your best to show kindness to her, even though she may not deserve it. Try to love your enemies, and be kind even to people who aren't kind to you!

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