Yeah… goodbye

Question

I hate to be this person 

Im so done with Kidztalk right now. I’m for sure not the only one getting annoyed by 99% of everyone. And i know a lot of people are leaving too but I’m gonna join them. Kidztalk is in another era of drama and I’m just done with it. I’m not gonna lie, people have become very dependent on gaining popularity/pity, and it’s just bugging me. Some people have valid vents or stuff and deserve this popularity or pity but the others are just… ugh.

I know this will pass and stuff I just want no part in it. People are being more and more toxic. KidzTalk is disorganized (not because of Kidzsearch, just the people in general messing it up) and I don’t want to be a part of a platform where it isn’t fun anymore. And besides the toxic stuff, there’s also a lot of stuff on here wasting my time. It’s not interesting really, a lot of post tend to be pointless? They’re just there to cause commotion or tell people something that isn’t important/unnecessary. 

I see people getting hate and making massive deals about it, giving back the hate. I see debates that last forever where all hope is lost and common sense is put away. I see a lot of folks saying rude remarks not needing to be said, hurting feelings. And I see some people neglected of posts. Like some of these users that aren’t as “popular“ never get as much attention to their posts no matter how serious it is. I see spam.

I’m not blaming anyone. I’m not pointing people out. I’m just expressing what I’ve seen. I’ve contributed to the drama because of the annoyance and my goal to put a stop to it. Obviously it’ll never work. So instead I’ll ignore it.

I hope I didn’t cause a heart attack not explaining I’m not fully leaving. It’s more of a break. I don’t know or care how long. I might look around and view posts still. Just not participate in anything. My hope is to come back when things are just a bit better in the community? 

Kidztalk should go back to being a meaningful, fun place for us to communicate to others, get help, laugh, have fun and even debate or learn new things. Not this. Yeah, yeah, I’m probably gonna get A BIT hate for this, but at this point I don’t care. If your angry over this post please try and understand where I’m coming from.

See ya’ll around. I’m sorry IM also doing this. Normally I wouldn’t, given the other users who have, but at this point I want to 

Sorry for the essay as well, I do that a bit too often. 

Take your time. Figure it out. Say kind words. Be yourself. Ignore the negative people. Stand up for others. Help out those who really need it. Make more friends. Do whatever it takes. Just stop the toxic behavior. 

Thanks to those who agree with me/do not use toxic behavior. You guys are really helpful in this and I hope you understand how important you are to me.

Answer 1

Bro you are incredibly real for this, and I couldn't agree more.

It makes me incredibly disappointed when I keep seeing all these dumb spam posts, and I agree that 70% of the posts are completely meaningless.

I also am not happy the lack of boundaries...

Comments

Boundaries are another thing…

Answer 2

Girl you are so right I miss all the fun times of things we did on KT especially art contests that we used to do so much.

I miss how kind everyone was not bc you were fake venting or jurking bc you were posting your art that you weren't so sure about.

We need to stop being like this. Everyone deserves so much more.

Answer 3

You…that’s a great post. I completely agree. Thank you for posting this.

Answer 4

I totally understand. I can see how Kidztalk has changed bc of all this drama. I think the peak has passed but everyone needs to come to together and help each other up. We need to rebuild this platform so that we can make this place a better one than before and, I’ve gotta say, a place where opinions can be freely, but respectfully, shared.

You take your time Kat. I totally support your statement.I hope that while you’re gone we can improve. So we can be happy again and you, and all the other ppl leaving for a while can come back soon!

<3

Answer 5

KT is falling apart..

but i support your decision, and i rlly, RLLY hope u come back soon, Kat :(

Comments

I will, pinky promise

It’s only gonna be a month or two ish

And I’ll lurk ngl-

Answer 6

Pls don’t leave! I don’t know you well but you are one of the best people here!

But i partly agree with you…

Comments

I’ll be back!!!!!!!

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Good:D

Answer 7

I caused this. I’m aware.

I appear to have become somewhat of a villain here.

The way I express my opinion offends some people.

My views offend some people.

My practices and life offend some people.

I acknowledge that I am not the perfect mold for this site.

I stand for what I believe and don’t back down.

I defend my opinion, whatever the cost.

Now, I realize that may be a problem.

But, regardless of if I like it, that is who I am.

Changing would definitely affect my personality.

My personality is what has given me so many friends here.

When I am here, I feel like being able to tell you everything.

You are trusted with a lot of stuff I don’t even tell my closest friends.

Almost every single one of you accepts me. And if you don’t, that’s fine. I can deal with that.

When someone else reveals something personal to all of us, They may not be as accepted as I am.

The main problem with this is that I do not realize other people may not be able to tank certain stuff like a stonewall.

I do not realize some other people are more sensitive than I am.

I apologize.

It’s hard for me to contain my opinions.

My opinions are strong and mostly different from most people here.

Well, I may need to take a break.

But, this place has changed my life in an amazing way.

It’s hard to stay away from here.

So I’ve decided to stay, controversy and all.

Comments

It’s not you. I promise it’s not you. You respectfully state opinions not bring others down. That’s different.

Answer 8

100% agreed.

Gats why Chelsea is gig on vacation from kidztalk

Answer 9

Yeah, I never see the homework help questions answered. And the spam posts (that are purposely spam) are indeed annoying.

Answer 10

I'm not trying to be toxic. (Yeah ik ik I cause dramas but its my stupid temper)

Comments

Temper shouldn’t be an excuse. Even so though you haven’t caused all that much drama

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I'm not using it as an excuse. I know my temper is bad and I honestly can't control it sometimes.