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So as some of you know I am questioning. But the problem is, I feel so confused when I call myself questioning, like I want answers. I feel like I'm lesbian but how can I know for sure since I've never been in a relationship with a boy and lesbians can have crushes on boys sometimes!! It just makes my head spin. What do I do?!



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Think about if you would kiss a guy or girl or both. And I am lesbian and have never had a crush on a guy, or anyone really for that matter, well, maybe one girl, but put that aside. But here is this thing, you don't have to be anything. And if you don't like questioning, you can use the word queer if it suits you better, cause queer just means "not straight", it is not specific. And I have not been in a relationship too, and yet I am lesbian still, cause I like girls that way and would puke thinking about guys that way lol. But don't put to much pressure on it, and if you really want something to define yourself as, take a few online quizzes (though, don't trust them too much).
by (82.8k points)
Yeah......Yeah, I know what you mean. When I have a crush on a boy, it's usually bcuz I like the person, but when I think of kissing them I throw up in my mouth. Lol!
by (9.2k points)
Same, lol.
by (82.8k points)

So, does that mean I'm lesbian??? I also feel like spewing barf if I think of having a baby with a boy. 

by (9.2k points)
Maybe. But yeah, that would be my reaction.
by (82.8k points)
Yeah. Last night I had a dream where I kissed a boy, AGAIN, and at first, it was a little weird, but now I realize I kinda liked it.......Idk, I'M SO CONFUSED!!!!



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