I completely get what you mean. All of my IRL close friends support me being bi, so I can joke and talk about it with them, but they’re all straight. Even though the KS community is amazing and there are other queer peeps on here that I can talk to, they live halfway across the world and only exist through the screen to me. It’s not quite the same as having other queer friends.
Although we don’t know each other in real life, we can always talk. It’s not perfect, but you’ll find your people eventually. We’re still great friends, even if it is online :)