Dear Rasta719,
You are not alone! I had a similar dream except a woman was in it. And when you said it hurt, I have had three dreams that have woken me up becuz of intense pain. I have no idea where the pain comes from, but dreams can be strange! Try not to watch anything scary and tell your parents. If you can talk in the dream oppose the man by saying 'No, I am NOT your child" and then wake up.