I can’t figure out my identity! I don’t know, I think I like both males and females, but I’m not sure anymore! I find girls and guys attractive, I guess, but I know thats not a way to figure out if your gay or something or not. I’ve never had a first kiss, nor date anyone, because I’m unsure who I do like. Plus, my valentines dance is coming up! Theres this cute girl and guy I like I guess, but I’m afraid of things and all… am I bi? am I actually lesbian? I can’t tell! Does anyone have advice?