Hello! :) I'd love to help you! ;) First off....i would like to mention....this isn't a "boy" problem...its a "friend" problem....not trying to be rude or anything. But the one easy solution to this problem...is.... Be best friends with everyone. Treat everyone the same way you would treat your gf. (in the nice way i mean) Im not saying that you don't treat your friends nice. Oh no! I'm not saying that! :o But if these girls asked you out tell them that you want to be friends and thats it. Everyone has to go thru the same thing you're going thru.