Girls only! Please, please help me out here!

Question

Not to brag, but people always are telling me that I’m so pretty. But I’m 11 now and whenever I look in the mirror, I see this beast with a fat, ugly face, crazy hair and just... yeah. WHY DO I LOOK SO UGLY TO MYSELF?? Help me!

Comments

I think you look good well I can not see you but I bet you do!

 

PS those people do not lie so listen to them.

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we have our own face like i have a huge scar on the side of my face so dont feel bad

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I feel you except for me its not my face is its my  body . I feel fat ,but everyone else says I'm thin

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 I am ugly i am theisso ya

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You are pretty the way you are can change that, but maybe start thinking about how you think you are pretty.

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Am ugly . I bet your not . My mom says am pretty and some grown ups sooo

If your not the prettyest ( i bet your really pretty but ) youl probly grow out of it.

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aye I bet ur pretty and dont say those things people say that I'm handsome but when I look at my self I'm ugly but when I think that I thank about those things that other people said and I'm 11

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Oh my gosh me too!! Everyone tells me I'm so pretty but stupid boys in my class often call me ugly, I just don't know who to believe. Ps I'm 11 too!

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Its not that ur ugly, it’s that ur not ur type!!! Its ok!! Ur beautiful no matter what ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Everyone is beautiful

And if you think your ugly you going to get far in life!

Answer 1

Girl this happened to me so much but you just have to realize that you are so pretty. You are ugly nor fat it may take a while for you to realize but you have nothing to worry about. I promise people wouldn't be telling you pretty unless you weren't

Answer 2

You only look ugly to yourself if you think you're ugly. Those people aren't lying. Even though I can't see you I bet you're beautiful.

Answer 3

you might not think you're beautiful,  but I know that real beauty comes from the inside!!!

Comments

True..

Answer 4

I feel ya! Just try to love yourself more!

Answer 5

Well, just put yourself in someone else's shoes (look at it from someone else's POV) when u look at yourself!

Also I bet you look gorgoeus (I am not a lesbian by the way)

Answer 6

Girl, you look wonderful behind that computer screen, and you always have!  Just be yourself, and believe me, you'll be even more attractive!

Answer 7

im 11, almost 12... i feel the same honestly. I feel like their lying and I just dunno what to do. Also, if it makes you feel better, it's impossible to comb my hair. The second I do comb my hair, it springs up again and it becomes tangled. what do I do??????

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Sammmeeeee about the hair thing .

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No way Thaila I bet you look pretty

Answer 8

Stop making genders not open this its not nice

Comments

I totally agree, but I do get the whole female trust bonding through oppression and insecurity thing.  I know males have insecurities too, but they haven't been told by society that they have to be perfect, never frowning, makeup always flawless, ect.

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When people put that it means that they want people who understand them not some yoyo ranting on how sexist it is.

Ps. I totally agree with the girls, you should be able to have security and not having to wory about that boy you really like reading your post and recognising you from school

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Would you want to tell boys of all ages about this? No. She can ask boys not to read it, which they probably still will, if she wants.

Answer 9

I don't know. I'm nearly 13. When I was 11, I was tall, thin, and pretty. And I've always been. And I still am. But I don't care if I'm fat or skinny or ugly or pretty.

Answer 10

i havnt been ever skinny ive been thicker than other girls so i know how you might feel i have charlie brown cheeks and a  buuble bottom and i feel ugly to everyone says that im beautiful to but i dont feel that either .ps my name is leslie im 11.im very very VERY insicure

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Yea me too. I’m skinny, tall (very tall for a gymnast), and hair on my body shows up more cause it’s darker than my skin. I am also very insecure help me I’m so ugly I hate my face and hair and body auggg

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Same. I’m 11 in less than a month.