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I'm on the bathroom floor writing this my whole bodies shaking and play there's a lot to cover... Yes I'm that questioning enby person who's been desperate on kids talk recently. So I kinda just came out to my parents. I'm going to fully explain so warning will be kinda long: So my dad was talking about feeling a little bad for this enby person at his work and stuttering/hesitating when they used their pronouns and he was confused. My mom then said they should expect it if they want to be a weirdo like that,  used he/him pronouns for them,  said that they need to choose one and that it seemed like a mental disorder.. I was shaking and trying to hold back my tears and tried to walk away casually. My Mom asked what was wrong and I said nothing and she asked kinda sarcastically if I wanted to be called they/them and I said yes. She asked if I was serious I said yes. She immediately was sympathetic to me but I needed to be alone so now I'm here. now they know ig... It doesn't feel real it feels like one of my dreams/daydreams about it happening and idk what to do

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Wow. That's certainly a lot to handle. I'm glad your mom was sympathetic, though. I mean, it's their problem if they don't agree with it.They made you, so it's their fault (try not to say that to their face, though). I do think it's good to kindly correct them when they use the wrong pronouns, so they know you're serious.

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Yeah. We talked a little afterwards about it. They were supporting but its weird how quick my mom went from 'mental condition' to acting super nice. my mom still seems to think i will choose one or the other eventually though...