It's not abuse. The majority of the time, parents do it for your own good. To help you be a better person. Real child abuse would be being hit on a constant basis, having stuff thrown at you really hard, being cut etc etc. Admittedly, the pulling of the jaw isn't ok, but otherwise its not abuse. I used to think like you, until I got a little older and I could see wht they were doign was for my own good.