CRUSH HELP

Question

I have a big crush on my best friend. Lets call her Victoria. So I think Im bi because i have a crush on a girl and i have for about 6 months. The problem is, She's straight. i spend plenty of time with her, but i dont know what to do...

Comments

Sounds like me I have a huge crush on someone named Slade and I don't know what to do please give me some advice.

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I think this is where you make a huge decision. Either way, you like her and handle the no and other consequences or find someone new for the sake of the friendship. Either way, it's risky. I hope you get it figured out :)

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Thanks :)

Answer 1

ok talking from experience here, what you should do is discreetly get her views on lgbtq, ask her questions like "what are your views on lgbtq?"because what if it turns out that she is homophobic then telling her you like her might ruin your friendship

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Yes.. maybe but she could support but still be straight. such as she could be an ally... But yes it could ruin the friendship

Answer 2

If I were you I would just tell her that's what I'm going to do with Slade. honestly this is what I'm going to say, hey Slade I wanted to ask you if you liked me because I have a huge crush on you and if you don't like me I need to know now so my dreams don't get crushed later in life.

Answer 3

I don't know how to help with this one. If she's straight, there's really not much you can do.

But, if she happens to like you too, like that, for some reason, then it's a miracle!

Answer 4

Just admit to having a crush on her

Comments

Yassss

Great idea