Why can't I just be happy.

Question

I have\had a friend who I don't think is my friend anymore... She found new friends, I guess. I mean we weren't close we were budding friends but then we hadn't seen each other in forever, but you know wouldn't she acknowledge me, at least. I started out being jealous of her finding a best friend that wasn't me. But now I'm hurt... She doesn't include me as even just a kinda friend. Since October I've seen her about every week I've been at youth group... I've tried talking to her, but she's always around her one friend. Yah know... Why can't I get over her ? Why doesn't she like me ? Why does she hide from me ? Why can't I just be happy that she has friends and leave it like that ?

Answer 1

I get it. I'm in that situation too :(

I've been so focused on trying to win her back to being my friend that I can't focus on anything else. She gets mad at me all the time when I do things on accident or make a mistake. I'm trying to move on but yeah it's really hard!

Try focusing on the friends that you have instead of trying to get your old ones back!

Comments

I'm sorry D:  I really hope your situation gets better :)

I'm trying to move on, but it's so freaking hard. Agreed a thousand times. I don't even know why I care. She basically ditched me. Doesn't even say hi to me, but err, yeah. I just want to know why she does this to me.  does she even know she hurt me. Do they even know that they us.

Your right. You really are, but I can't seem too. I want to ignore her and just be kind yah know. I don't want to be bitter. I really feel like I should tell her how I feel. you know.

But again like I said :( you are absolutely right. Now I need to bring myself to do it.

Answer 2

Dude I get it!

All my friends are dating now! And I'm not! Well not all but 2 of them! And it's kinda weird! Maybe just let her go! Ik it's hard but you should'nt waste your time on someone who doesn't appreciate you

Answer 3

Same with me. It will get better. Hopefully u will talk again. For now talk to new people!!!!!! Make more friends!

Comments

Thanks :))))) I am I met this really funny girl about a weekago :D she's awesome .  I hope your situation gets better :D