I have a bf (trans male) and I have had a huge crush on him since I met him. We have never had a fight or argument before and we are a perfect match. Things were fine and we have been dating since September of 2022.
Then, I check his tt and he has a post talking about how he asked his ex to be his valentine. Mind you, WE ARE LITERALLY TOGETHER. I was so sad about this and started crying. I commented on the video saying do what you want to but inside I was torn apart.
My bf has a lot of trust issues, relationship issues (previous relationships ), adhd, and autism. That doesn't stop me from loving him though. So what do I do. I don't want to be dramatic and I don't even know if his ex said yes, but the thing is his ex is literally perfect in every way. Her name is Abby and she is literally gods gift to humans. She is sweet, always wears the most perfect clothes, has a beautiful smile, is literally gorgeous, and I always feel like I have nothing she has. I a!ways try to joke around with my bf and make him laugh, act sweet, and basically try to mimic Abby's personality t make him love me more. And yet, it apparently wasn't enough for him. I don't have the heart to break up with him and I don't want to be a dramatic person and start getting in others business.
Another thing that bothers me is that he brings up Abby a lot. One example is that we were video chatting earlier today and he brought her up. He even wrote her a note and idk what it said cause he didn't show me (the period ended) but I can only imagine...
What do I do. I literally feel so lost right now. I can't even imagine why he would ask his EX to be his valentine. We are together! what's more, I was going to ask him to be my Valentine this Friday but I guess he has someone else...
And anytime any of my friends ask if we are still together he goes silent. I go silent too, because I genuinely don't know. We have never made out, we HAVE held hands, and we have hugged...but that's it.
Help me please...Im sorry this is so long btw I just needed some answers...
