Wow! This is just... Wow. Honestly, I've never seen such an intelligent response on here in a while. But, there are a few things...
1.) Dan's dad is around (I'm actually the one who's dad left lol), but his daddy's got money Yes, it's a stereotype of the late 90's, but it's true. And he's known for being like this among lots of the girls. And Idk, but getting a girl to try and do sketchy stuff with you and go outside her moral boundaries after she has said no is a little creepy in my book. But Ig I suppose you could totally be right about him. I mean, (I'm assuming by your name) you're the guy, after all.
And I 100% agree with the "don't have time to chat you up all day" thing. My last bf was like that (I mean he had way to much time on his hands) and he would constantly gaslight me because I was busy and wouldn't always respond. Okay, I'm trailing, but I totally agree and get that.
2.) It's a cliche for teenage girls to just block guys out of the blue, even when they're totally respectful. And they respond "Idk, I just felt like it." I don't want to come across as that person. I mean, I haven't responded to any of his messages since I posted this, and hopefully it's close enough to blocking him (I haven't opened them either).
And no, it's not for attention. I've had my fair share of that, and quite frankly I don't really want any attention from this guy outside of school.
Speaking of, we see a lot of each other at school. We have classes together where we sit near each other, I see him at sports and games, and we both hang out in the same group of people during break. Plus, he's the type that would make a huge deal to everyone if I blocked him, and then they would press me into telling them why I did. I mean, I'll probably end up doing it, but I'm dreading it.
3.) I would love to show his gf, but then I start thinking to myself, "what if I'm just interpreting it the wrong way? What if he just has a flirty personality?" She's a great friend of mine, and even if I showed her she would distance herself from me. Which I don't totally blame her, because I've done it at one point, but what if it is truly nothing?
I've deleted the actual messages but I have screen shots. Right now, things have been slow after I haven't responded.
4.) Again, I swear I'm not in it for attention. Ofc it's nice, I'll admit, but it's awkward 'cause Ik I'll never have feelings for this person and I could never stand his personality as anything else but a friend.
I get what you're saying in this paragraph, but now I'm not quite sure how to put it into action. Ya get what I'm saying?
Thank you, I did enjoy reading it! I hope to see more of you on KT (no idea how old are you and if you'll stick around)! I hope you have a lovely rest of your week.
Thanks again! :)