Question about a friend

Question

I have been contemplating whether our friendship is one sided or not. You see, I'm always the first one to text her. Friends are curious about each others life, right? They would want to know how the other person is doing, what they're doing, their interests etc. But she never texts me first! And it takes her 3 or more days to check my messages. She only texts me when she needs something. Then when we meet up irl she acts all buddy buddy with me. I don't know if I'm reading more into this or she's just busy.

Answer 1

Ask her. I really can't help u. I think she's just busy

Answer 2

OH that happens to me a lot. My friend Lily is a super bad texter and like never answers my texts. The best thing to do is to not bother her or any thing. Maybe tell her at school about all the texts you sent her and tell her to look at her phone\laptop\ipad. Hope this helped!

Answer 3

Hmm... It could be that she's more comfortable IRL than over the phone, and doesn't prefer texting people.

Answer 4

My friend is the same way! But she does it to everyone. Most likely because she doesn't spend a lot of time on her phone and is probably busy a lot!