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I AM TERRIFIED OF GROWING UP AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i dont wanna have my period, im not ready for middle school math, (im homeschooled btw) i dont wanna have acne and I. AM. NOT. READY. AT. ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  as i put in the other post thats called " i think...o_o" i might be bi! i will spill all of the details.

The story of my maybe "Bi-ness" (ignore the fact i just made up a word TwT)

so lets go back to winter, 2022

I was with my (maybe) crush/friend/awesome girl/supernice girl at an outdoor class and it was FREEZING THAT DAY,  and my friend (my maybe crush) was super cold. i was just like, sit on ur hands, and btw lets call her Lia. so Lia sat on her hands for a while but then she *hallelujah* hugged me to stay warm. wait idk how to describe this so emojis will tell: boogiein_lovejawdrophai innocent i felt so warm and fuzzy and (excuse me while i gag) lovey inside...  and i was like omg i love this rn girl ( I DIDNT SAY THAT!!) but, a few years ago i had a crush on a boy and now a girl?? so last week or so i went to bed and realized:  "OMG I MIGHT BE BI!!!!!!  I NEED TO POST THIS!!"  i do not wanna be bi but not because i am homophobic okay? btw that lovey feeling was soooo nice and i was still cold but didnt feel it as much after Lia hugged me.. do i have a crush?? and am i bi?? and can somebody help me not be terrified of growing up? plsss 

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Oh hun that's a difficult situation. As someone in middle school now, I definitely remember how scared I was. I didn't want my period either, and I certainly didn't want to grow up. But, its a natural part of life, and we can't stop it. It just means you are maturing into a beautiful young adult. You seem like a very sweet person, and I am sure you will handle it well.

About your bi-ness (using your own words here lol), I wouldn't let it stress you out too much. As a genderfluid and omnisexual person, I was very stressed about my gender identity, but remember, you are still a kid. Right now, you should be focusing on homework and middle school. While it can be helpful to know who you like and who you are, if it becomes a problem and causes you stress, I reccomend you try not thinking about it. Remember, being bisexual isn't a choice, and it's something you are born like. Good luck :)
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tysm this helps



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I once felt that. But you have your parents n teachers with u so everything would be FINE.

*right
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