I think, for one, you're not actually being very supportive. You're saying it's a decision or a change or whatever, and that people can't know who they are. People can disagree, but that's what I think, and if you like girls, girls can be trans or cis. I don't mean to be rude in any way, I just want to point that out. Also, 'female', in my opinion, makes it sound like girls are a thing or a type of animal other than human.
Do you flip in a like 'ohmygoshmycheekscan'tstopsmilingithurts' way, or a 'okay, why?' way.
I knew I was queer when I was 10. I was still figuring it out, but I knew I was queer. And also, I don't exactly like the phrase 'feeling homosexual'. I mostly like girls and nonbinary people, and boys about 5% of the time. Homosexual is feeling attraction to the same gender, but I feel it mainly to the same gender AND people under the nonbinary spectrum.
Your family has that dating age rule, but not everybody, so not everything has to go with your rules. Also, I know who I am, and I have not dated anybody. You also say that YOU feel, which again, you have nothing to do with this person. You said you changed your sexuality, as if you decided it and thought 'wow, I like this other one better'. That works for labels (I generally use 'queer' instead of the labels usually associated with my sexuality. Also, I'm not really confident. I just know who I am in a way. Also, the way you said 'girls have girl pieces. . .guys have guy pieces' isn't really how that works. Younger you's logic was affected by the basics you were taught, which aren't generally the full basics. And who says there's such a thing as 'girl pieces' and 'guy pieces'? Somebody could be a girl and have what you call 'guy pieces', which have nothing to do with gender. Are they still a girl? Yes. Are they a boy? No.
That isn't the definition of a furry, and there's nothing wrong with being one. They do not necessarily go with the LGBTQ+ community unless an individual is both, but again, people may disagree. If you find them hot but not in a crush way, that's not okay, you can't somethingthatwouldgetcensoredifIputitonhere trans people.
I think you are an ally, you just need to learn more. If you are actually questioning and feel like you might be more than cis and straight, lmk, I will always support questioning people. Even though I'm sure of who I am, I'm also not, if you know what I mean, I'm sure but still slightly questioning. I just figured myself out a few days ago. Yeah. That recent. After going down a Google rabbithole, the same I've been doing for the past six-seven or so months.
Again, if I sound rude at any point in this, lmk, I don't mean to be. :)