What exactly are they doing that makes them seem mean? Normally, parents won’t let you do some things because they are worried for your safety and/or health. This is true with electronic time restrictions as well as not going to a party that a bunch of sketchy people invited you to. I have a hard time talking to my parents about their rules, but I try to go slow at first. Make sure you are not finger pointing, like, “You guys are so mean, you won’t let me do anything!!!” Try, “Hey, guys? I know you are good parents since you set the restrictions because you’re worried about me, but could we ease up he rules a bit, please?” Make sure to use manners! Sorry this was so long.