So, my mom's deciding on me doing something with a friend. It sounds fine, right? But we're not even friends. Last year, she was so horrible to me and my best friend (who is also someone I like. Like. Like. That made no sense, sorry xd) and literally bullied her. She told lies about us, getting rid of people who used to be nice to us. And this year, now that my best friend is at another school, she thought we could just be friends again. I've tried to cut her out of my life, but it's really hard when she insists on starting conversations, and we end up doing stuff together because my mom thinks she's 'such a sweet kid'. I've come home crying and saying that she's been so mean to us, and apparently I was just lying. Maybe that's because she got her mother to text mine saying that I was a liar and excluding her and 'we were only doing things [my name] wanted to do'. Uh, we went weeks playing tag, which both my best friend and I absolutely hate. She didn't listen to us, didn't pay attention to us.
And she's homophobic. She knows I'm not straight (she found out, surprise, surprise), and she literally thinks there are two sexualities. She's hanging out with people who also mildly bullied me. (I say mildly, because it didn't happen often, but it happened.) When I told her they were homophobic, I told her what it meant. (because apparently we have equal rights and nobody hates on 'you gays' as she says? What?!) She said 'it can't be that bad, right?' She's also so horrible to LGBTQ+ people, and literally said 'I think I'll be that' when my friend and I had to explain to her each letter in the acronym and when we said lesbians. She says that a man and a man can't get married when I brought it up in a story, and she's thought I was joking.
I'm pretty sure she outed me to a few of her awful friends, and probably wants to bring it up when we do the thing my mom scheduled. I don't even want to go (I'm pretty sure I made that clear to her), but she's still forcing me to. The worst part is, if she talks about it, both her mom and my mom will be there, and my family doesn't even know. I don't want to go, and how do I get out of this? I'm this close to pretending to be sick.