I honestly do not understand why people do SH. It does not help anything, and it only gains negative attention.
I'm not saying I agree with KS for censoring it, I'm just saying that it will always be a useless method to me.
What you truly need are people who care about you, not a thousand friends.
I, also, have the strong urge to prove people wrong. I guess you could say that I'm a bad person, going by your theory. Am I a bad person?
I, too, have an extremely hard time asking for help and letting things go. Am I a bad person?
But why does it matter what people say or think? Also, why do you need to have a lot of friends who probably wouldn't care about you instead of one who was been by your side for years and truly cares?
I dunno. Maybe I just have dumb ideas. But I stand by the fact that SH is useless. Friends who care about you are more than any number of friends who don't.
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And by the way, without the school part, you do have a lot of friends who care about you. We care about you.