Okay, what should I do? (Part 2 and update!)

Question

Okay, so, you all know my situation with Dustin, right?? Well, things have changed in the past week.

1.) Crazy, but, um, Dustin broke up with his girlfriend. Well, she dumped him. He doesn't seem all that upset about it though- we've been hanging out like a tiny bit more often now, and he told me he was kinda glad that they're not together anymore.

2.) Dustin knows I like someone- but I won't tell him who. He has been trying to guess who, and he had guessed himself a few times, but I keep saying "no" to whoever he guesses, including him. I feel like then he gonna start thinking that he is totally out of the picture! Soooooo, do I maybeeeeee tell him??

3.) Okay, this is more centered to guys, but whatever. So, if a girl you were sorta-ish close/ friends with had a crush on you, would you ever date her? Even if she's kinda "one of the guys?" Just curious!

4.) How would I go about "making a move??" Seriously you guys, I have no idea what to do now.

Thanks for listening to my rant :p

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Oh wow, not sure how to help lol. But good for you !

Ngl I love listening  rants  (X X) I hope things go well .

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Thank you :)

I like listening to people rant, too XD

Answer 1

Well, I think you're in luck.

They broke up, which is good (for you). If he isn't too mad about it then you definitely have a chance.

I just want to say, I think you two can be Together without getting in trouble with the school. But I wouldn't risk it...

If he has been constantly trying to figure out if you like him, that is a really good sign. Usually if they are really interested in who you like they are either just curious or like you. I would definitely tell him if i were you.

Now. To answer your question, yes. Definitely. My crush (J) is "one of the guys".

Now... To make a move... I'm really bad at "making a move" with girls... But, I do know how i would want a girl to make a move.

PLEASE, FOR ANY GUYS SAKE, DON'T BE SUPER SUBTLE ABOUT IT. Now, i'm not just saying walk right up to him and kiss him, but don't be super subtle and expect him to understand. We don't. Really, best course of action would be to, when he is guessing who you like, say their name starts with an "y". Ik it is weird, but trust me. One of the first things to come to his mind will probably be "you". That probably won't be his first guess though. But when he eventually guess it, say yes. Ik you will be nervous, but do it.

I hope this helps, and if you have any other questions I will gladly answer them.

-cuberdude

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Thanks Cuberdude! I was hoping you would answer :)

I'm really in-between on the risk thing... I'm not really sure what to do about it yet!

I'm really going to try (the advice you gave me)!! I am ultra-mega nervous :(

Thanks again!

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You're welcome, I'm glad I could help you!

Yeah, the thing is they can't really say "you can't be together!" Because technically it isn't their business and you could just say it is a outside of school thing.

Don't be, i am sure he likes you back!

You're welcome!

-cuberdude

Answer 2

Hi CheerlessCheerleader! Maybe you'll remember me. I'm 《ThunderDragon》, I am so sorry 4 not posting in like...3 months!! Hopefully u remember me, just wanted to say hi. 

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Ofc I remember you!! I was wondering where you went!! SO glad you're back :D

Answer 3

OMG!!!! THIS IS FATE GIRL!!! So, this is so crazy!!!!! When he ask's you who you like say do you like anyone and if he says yes say if you tell I will tell. Personally, I don't think he would be asking so much if he didn't care. I mean if he is " JUST A FREIND" then he wouldn't care. Next time he ask's you say why do you really want to know? If he say's just bc say that's not a good reason, I mean am not going to tell my personal feelings to you Just because but if you want to know for other reasons then I might tell you. Is there a dance or something like that coming up for you guys? If so, you could say hey I know that the dance is coming up I was just wondering if you're going? I don't have anyone to go with * HINT*. This is awesome maybe ask him to go to a Cheerleader thing with you. Are you a Tomboy? I wish I had more boys around all of them I know don't care a thing about being even friends.

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I don't think they can go to a dance together. Cc said there school doesn't allow ppl from junior high and high school date so they probably wouldn't allow it.

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Oh true, dumb rule though. I mean if they like each other why does the school care!

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Thanks, Blue!

I wish there was a dance coming up! Well, prom is, but I'm a freshman, and Cuberdude is right, I couldn't take him anyways. Honestly it's not even that big of an age difference (9? 10 months?) though, so it is a dumb rule!

Cheer just ended, but I will be cheering him on (from the stands and without the uniform ;)) in his baseball season! I'm actually staying for the double-header next week.

Thanks again!

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Hey NP you would and have done the same for me!I wish you the best of luck Knock Him out with your awsomeness! GO GIRL  GET HIM!!!!!!!