Hey man, I get that!! One of the guys I liked, well, it was kinda (?) the same way. Although, later on as I got to know him a bit better, I realized he was just NOT IT XD He did some things that really disappointed me, so I moved along :p And when I did, I found my favorite person on the face of the earth :)
Not really that cold, but I can def see where you're coming from!! ;) Thanks for answering!!