Friend Problem: Please answer

Question

Ok so I have been friends, BFFS, with this one girl since 5th grade, and all of a sudden she said she didn't want to be friends at all anymore. Well, first she like started ignoring me, not talking to me, and hanging out with our (now her BFF) other friend. I asked her if she was mad or something, and she said no. Then one day she texted me and told me to stop copying everything she does and that I am very clingy and annoying and stuff. She said that she didn't want to be BFFS anymore, but maybe just friends. (for info on the copying claims, see down) I said I dont copy her and that ok we can be just friends, thinking that we would now be ok and talk. But instead she kept ignoring me and like never talking to me. then she texted me and said that like i am still copying her and we shouldnt be friends at all. She also got all of our other friends against me and now they all dont talk to me except one. They talked about me behind my back, (they were quite obvious about it), and made a name for me called veronica and like in front of me talked about this veronica. I told her that i knew it was me, but she lied and said it wasn't, then ater sad it was. Ok. Also, at my friend's bday party, she never talked to me, and i got to see her from the outside view. she was on her phone the entire time and never interacted with nayone rly. now i like see how she actually is, and ive gotten over it. just pls tell me how i can make more friends, and any advice or knowledge u have for me.

the "copying".

- she claimed that as soon as she bought vans, i went out and bought some (no. i had to buy shoes because one of my crocs (which she also said i copied [no they were the only choice of color]) got lost in hershey [long story])

- she said i copied her getting makeup (no, im a teenager, i want makeup)

- she said i copied her clothes (like what the heck no)

and a lot of others, but i deleted her chat thread sooooooooooowhoops.

also she originally said we could be friends again and then all of a sudden said nope we cant be friends like whatttt

Comments

I'm sorry that happened to you maybe you shouldn't hang out with her

Answer 1

People like that just want attention. Don’t stay friends with her, thats a toxic relationship. Start making friends by being friendly to people, so make allies. At some point you’ll have enough friends or at least people who side with you to make you comfortable. Then you can confront her and tell her off. You can also look up some really good burns and snap back at something she says with something really quick. You’ll get some funny reactions and come off as more prepared and dominant. Just end the conversation with that and walk away so she can’t make a comeback.

DO NOT STAY FRIENDS WITH HER, I REPEAT. I KNOW IT’S PAINFUL SOMETIMES, BUT SHE ISN’T WORTH IT.

Answer 2

Hi, I'm dealing with something similar, I think you should try getting new friends and just leaving everything they are doing to you behind you, I know like me, you must be tired of the ' ignore them ' advice but maybe if you just mind your own business and get new more kind and supportive friends, you may have a nice time. I know also that when they talk infront of you using code names, that hurts too. But you can't control those meanies, just hurl them out of your life,

Hope it's helpful

Answer 3

Believe me I know, you shouldn't be friends with someone like THAT, try to make some new friends.

Answer 4

I am soooooo sorry about your friends! I hope you guys make up! See ya!!! tell me how it works out!

Answer 5

Well... You just have to find "your people". Mine are other Minecrafters.

Don't pretend to be someone you're not. Eventually your friends will find out and not want to be your friends anymore.

Sorry that's all I can think of rn