HELP

Question

I am homophobic and so is my whole fam and we are very strict  christian but every time I see a really cute girl I blush or get butterflies in my stomach and if I am really close to a really really cute girl sometimes I kinda just a little bit want to kiss them but to top all that if there is like a really really really super super cute girl I start to idk it's like I can't stop thinking about them or looking at them and I want to kiss them kinda and like I kinda start falling for them I think I may be bi but I am homophobic please help

Comments

Maybe you should get a therapist.

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You should ask your parents.

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How old are you?

Answer 1

If you are bi it's not the end of the world. I'm bi. Also you don't HAVE to be homophobic.

Answer 2

Explore? Realize what is making you homophobic and stop doing those things. EMBRACE YOUR BISEXUALITY. if you want. and if you want to that's TOTALLY okay

Answer 3

Are you trying to stop it or are you trying to impress a girl?

Answer 4

Okay, I agree with Writingnerd. At least you recognize that you are homophobic, but it's DEFINITELY not a good thing.

I'm part of the LGBTQ+ community, despite being raised by a heavily Christian father. Yet I am an atheist (I love and respect all religions) and am genderfluid, omni, and aromantic.

However, religion is no excuse for homophobia and intolerance.

I am going to assume you are female, judging on the way you were talking about other girls (if you aren't female and I'm misgendering you, I'm sorry!)

What are you into? Just girls? Girls and boys? Three genders? Everyone? Or do you have preferences? Look, like Wn said, we can't just tell you what you are. We can 100% support an guide you (many of us on KT/KS are LGBTQIA+ or allies!), but finding your sexuality is an adventure for you to take, not us. Good luck!

- Dino

Answer 5

At least you know that you're homophobic. But it's not great to be homophobic. Religion isn't an excuse to be homophobic.

Judging by the way you're talking (about cute girls and that you like them) I'm guessing you're a girl?

I think that yes, you are LGBTQ+. Do you like boys and girls? Just girls? All genders? Some genders? Do you have a preference?

I can't tell you what your orientation is. I can help you along the way, but it is your journey. I can't tell you who you are. I can help.

Answer 6

Stop being homophobic then.

-Nobi

Comments

Best advice of 2023

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Totally

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Ha thx guys!

:DD

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:)

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HAH THE WAY WATER FLEW OUT OF MY NOSE BAHAHAHAHAHA

- Dino

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Is your nose okay? (I'm genuinely worried about whether your nose hurts. One time I got an orange snorted out of my nose. It hurt. Idk how that happened, though.)

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MY ADVICE WAS DAT FUNNY

WOWOW!

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Lol

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Aw I appreciate the concern. Like what I don't deserve this much kindness-

(Yea my nose is fine, it just hurt for a minute or two lol. Water is one thing, but an ORANGE?! Wow girly, what were you doing? xD)

- Dino

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:) Everyone deserves kindness. And I was concerned. Water in noses stings. So much.

(Okay, good, I know it hurts. I honestly have no idea how the orange happened.)

  . . .I pressed the p and the h and the same time. It turned 'honestly' into 'iPhones fly.'

  I fixed it, but still.

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Wait they do—

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They can if we get technology that lets them do that.

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Forget pigs

The iPhones must fly!

Oop wait another quirky quote—

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Someone needs to put this on Dino's post-

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You just won the "Best kids talk advice of 2023"award

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Aww thanks!

You guys are all the best XD

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@Milk tea, ikr?!

@Nobi, you're awesome!

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@Wn, YOU'RE MORE AWESOMER—

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@Nobi you're awesomer than awesome-

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@Nobi @Writingnerd

Both of you are more awesomer than awesome xD

- Dino

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@Wn, you are AWESOMESAUCE

You can't go above that you just can't

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Both of you are AWESOMESAUCE WITH PASTA ON TOP OF IT. (that makes it more awesome)

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YOU GUYS ARE MORE AWESOMESAUCEMER WITH PASTA AND MEATBALLS ON TOP!

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BOTH OF YOU ARE AWESOMESAUCE WITH PASTA, PESTO, AND TOMATOES ON TOP.

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NO

UNO REVERSE CARD!

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I don't think it's gonna be that simple Nobi.