What should I do about this girl?

Question

I know this girl who was rude to me last year. She kept herself at bay to not make me angry. I still want to be friends, but I feel like she might hurt my feelings or talk about me behind my back. She has told her friends some private things about my life. Do you know any tips to keep her away from me and in a way that won't put me under any pressure and should I be friends with her?

Comments

Please answer soon.

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I feel the same abt a girl, lets call her L. So L is kinda mean but I want to be friends but im scared she will spill my secrets. All my 'best friends' already did.

Answer 1

Tell her that you would like her to stop what she is doing. Don't worry. You're kind,nice,and perfect the way you are! Don't let anyone tell you different. I can totally relate to this I'm going through the SAME THING right now. Stay strong!

Answer 2

Hi no matter what remember your friends will stand by you through anything you need to tell someone if something happens but if it has not happened in a long time maybe stay away from her.

Answer 3

Just ask her to keep away from you.

Alternatively get a restraining order on her ( I was kidding on that one)

Answer 4

Where does it happen? At the lunchroom, classroom, recess, etc.?

Comments

Everywhere. But she's left me alone since last year.

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Since she’s left you alone, you should leave the problem alone unless it’s still happening.

If it’s still happening, tell an adult (teacher, recess aid, lunchroom teacher, etc.) about the situation. If the adults don’t do anything, tell the principal.

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Thanks a lot!

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You’re welcome!