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My dad is a raging drug addict. He takes steroids and other things almost every day, making him intolerable. Recently, he hurt me so bad i was left with blood and bruises. he has done this before, but never to this point. My dad discovered I had 3 missing assignments for school, and he went into a rage. He was screaming in my face, and I knew he was gonna hurt me by the look in his eyes. As soon as he left the room, I ran to the bathroom with my school computer, since he had taken my phone the day before. I emailed my mom, but recieved no response and got anxious, so I emailed my principal. She called my mom, but when she had no response, she called the police. My mom notified my dad and told him the cops were called, and he flipped. He banged on the bathroom door, threatening to beat me and bust the door down. I opened it with my shakey hands and tear soaked face, prepared to get slapped. He didn't tho. He yelled until my brothers got in the car, and then proceeded to scream at me to put my shoes on. I started to, but then I realized I would be safe if I just waited for the police. When I told him no to getting in the car, he grabbed my shoe and beat me with it for a good 3 minutes, while I was screaming for help. When I had finally had enough, he threw me on the floor of our laundry room, and screamed until I got in the car. Long story short, he fled before the cops could come. Me and my mom filed a police report 4 days later, and a restraining order 2 days after that. I really miss him. What can I do to distract myself?



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Oh I'm so sorry to hear that! No offense to your dad, but this sounds like child abuse! I feel bad for you, and I hope things get better! Just always love your dad, no matter what happens like aroura sky cat said. As for distracting yourself from missing him, maybe try hanging out with friends or family. But maybe instead of distracting yourself,try calling him on the phone and tell him how you feel. Hope this helps! I'm not the BEST at advice, but I tried.

Sincerely ,

Wednesday Addams
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I'm so sorry...You can still love your dad, no matter what is happening. Love him by forgiving him, and it'll feel just like it would be if he wasn't that way. My life isn't that way, but i've known many people who have had this problem, and what they did was forgive and forget. One day, your dad will ask for your forgiveness, and all you have to do is forgive him. Don't be mad at him, no matter what the situation is. Just keep loving him. God is the same way to us. I'm not going to try to minister to you here, but if you want me to pray for you, I will. Please, PLEASE, don't ever think of your father as a bad man. The only thing that's his fault is his decision to take those steroids and drink excessively. Loveing him might be a loosing game, but do it anyway.
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Talk to the child help service. They will be able to help you.

They are available 24/7. ( so, yes if you need to report them at midnight of December 25 you can and they will help)
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OMG i am so sorry!! i literally almost cried reading this post!! maybe try venting to ur friends, or a trusted adult.



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