pls help i have this friend who is really nice but doesn't let me really talk about being lgbtq around her that much which I respect her boundaries but it makes me upset when it's a huge part of my identity that she just wants to block out and even left when we were celebrating my friend coming out. and now I just tried to explain that and now she won't rejoin the call my other friend is so angry with me cuz I might have ruined their friendship with her and now I'm trying to pretend I'm not online just because I can't deal with this rn. what do I do?