If its her brushing ur hair no its not abuse. But otherwise tell her to stop people should not do stuff to purposly hurt their children its not right. If you need to report her to your dad or a teacher if you cannot tell it to your mom's face. I would want it to be stopped and if its in some what large amounts and very on purpose than I would deffenetly say its abuse. #help-you #sorry PS If your mom has an online acount you might be able to report her on their even if you just get a little payback but that could backfire on you. best wishes pinepike