So I am in a friend group with me and 2 other people, J and K. We are all close and hang out every day at school. One thing to note about K, though, is that she's very dramatic and overreacts a lot. Me and J have literally dropped her multiple times because she just gets mad at us for no reason. She will literally ignore us one day and be grumpy and the next day she's perfectly happy again. Its weird and hard to deal with at times but other than all that, shes a good friend.
I have anxiety, attachment issues, anger issues, ovetthinking alot, and social anxiety. Its not fun and its one of the reasons im so judgemental about myself. Its no excuse as to how I behave sometimes, but it plays a factor in it.
Anyway, I was sitting at lunch today with K and J. We were all just chatting about the tests we had completed that week and things were fine until there was just a large silence. I hate when that happens and everyone goes quiet and none of us know what to say. As I mentioned,I have social anxiety, and situations like that scare me. So I started talking about how a bunch of our other friends had left u a while ago. I started gossiping about the recent drama and updates I'd heard. Then K got mad and said in a sassy voice "Not everything is about them. Just stop".
That really hurt because I had never meant to make anyone mad. The lunch continued anyway, and J brought up that he had been crying himself to sleep last night and that he didn't really want to talk about it. Another awkward silence. I leaned over and gently asked, " is it about ____?"
Then K speaks up again and says "He just said he didn't want to talk about it. Just be quiet" and glares at me. I was hurt again but this time I said "Im just trying to break the silence. You both know I didn't try to upset anyone. Yeah I have issues. I think that's obvious, and if its not, then stop being my friend."
Ill admit I overreacted. K also said I was an attention seeker and made everything about myself...
I need an opinion on this... Someone help please!
