My friend is spreading rumors about me, what do I do?

Question

So I have been "friends" with this girl since 2nd grade, and she is starting to spread rumors - she said that I am a racist (I have not said ANYTHING about races!!). She has also been waiting for me by my car and my locker with her friend, and make fun of me and taunt me. She also has been extremely mean to my Best Friend (Lena) and it makes me so mad. The girl also keeps telling me that I am too young to have a boyfriend and that I should breakup with him because apparently middle school love does not exist according to her. It does! The counselors and my mom say that I should not be her friend because every time I forgive her, she always does something that hurts me mentally and breaks my trust. What should I do? Should I give her another chance and try to be her friend, or should I do what my mom and the counselors say I should do?

Answer 1

There is no way to put this softly, she is a big meany pants bully. Meaning she is a fake friend.

Okay that was a not enough softness.

Amyways... she is a fake friend so unfriend her.

About the rumors...they will blow over. (I had one about me last year. (as far as I know it only lasted a few months maximum)

Answer 2

I really don't like this girl. You shouldn't forgive her anymore. You need to get an adult involved if you haven't already. Talk to your friends and figure out how to stay away.

Answer 3

I have a friend like that

Answer 4

She's a fake friend.

Do what  your counceloers say. They are experienced to solve these type of problems.

Comments

My counselors say that I should avoid her.

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Agreed.