HOW DO I COME OUT

Question

I need help coming out to my parents. If you didn't know, I'm lesbian, and my brother is gay. My brother already came out, and I already told him I'm lesbian, but he refuses to give me advice because he pretty much hates me. I'm scared to come out, even though my parents won't think of me any differently than before. I'm just scared because I think my parents will be disappointed that they don't have any straight children. I also need help coming out to my grandpa, who I hate. He gets drunk all the time, and he made my cat run away! He's kinda homophobic, and he even hates my brother cuz of it!

PLEASE HELP!!

Answer 1

Ok how old are you?? This is a big decsion! Why do you think your lesbian?? Do you have a reason or is it a just a feeling?? I would wait a while maybe think it over. Ik what it's like to feel like your a disappontment to your parents all the time! To feel like your not good enough! I'm sorry about your grandpa it's probly a gen thing!

Comments

I'm 11 and my brother is 13. I think I'm lesbian cuz I've liked boys before, but they've never liked me back, and I feel like no boy will ever like me. Also, there aren't any boys that are my type in middle school lol. And, I've had a crush on all my female friends, soooooooooooooooooo

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Girl! That's bc your in middle school! Boys are kinda weird in middle school! I'm in middle school and I don't like any boys in middle school either! Also have any girls in middle school liked you back?? Don't say that! Your probably an amazing person! Don't worry if boys don't like you in middle school they probably don't like anyone and think girls are gross! I promise most boys in middle school are not interested in any girl!

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I gotta say my ( no offense to any middle school boys on this site) middle school boys are the most annoying creatures on the planet.

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I agree completly! There gross and weird! And just annoying like dude how old are you!! Yep def no crushes on middle schoolers

But High School  boys. . . . 

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Ha haha, yup. But 50% might as well be in middle school XD.

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What about 1 year-old boys?

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Well... there's also this rumor going around that my BFF is my gf... and I do like her. We act very... how do I say this... gay around each other (lol), and I think she likes me back, cuz whenever she's around, she gets all nervous and blushy and stuff...

Also, my other friends say that since I've had male crushes before, I'm bi with a preference for girls. I don't feel that way, plus it's way too complicated. I'm pretty sure I'm lesbian cuz well... I just have never felt real feelings for boys. Plus, boys have always betrayed me by making fun of me, literally running away when I confess I like them, etc. I'm tired of it. Girls have never done that to me! Plus, I strongly find women more attractive (?).

The reason I say that no boys will ever like me is cuz I'm the weird kid at school. I always have been. People think I'm a furry. I have giant buck teeth. If I were to have my first kiss right now, my big ol' teeth will get in the way. Plus, I'm fat. And don't go saying "Oh, no, Akari, you aren't!" I am. My stomach is huge, none of my clothes fit, and everything is super uncomfortable. I even have fat-person folds! So yeah, that's pretty much why.

-Akari

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They are angels XD babies are angels.

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Honestly, 11 is too young to have a girlfriend or boyfriend even if you aren't Gay.

And honestly embrace the weirdness. Somebody will love you for the very things you might be ashamed of.

Gurl, girls are backstabbing jerks they may not be DRAMATIC, but they often'll won't say what they actually think.

I say embrace the weirdness, the quirks, the oddities. Somebody will love you for who you are. I love you..( 1 Corinthians 13-4-7 love) not errrrr romantic love. You are incredibly beautiful in God's eyes. And you are funny incredibly quirky ! I don't care if you believe in God or not .

:D

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Ok some of them! But others are very mature!

But your right some of them are jerks! (as you will hear about in my prayer post later)

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Um adorobs! And I want one! Ahhhhh

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Aww I'm sorry! That's horrible!

Yesterday my friend got teased by some boys who where from a diff school and thought she played the Oboe  they said mean stuff about her clothes like"oboe's are for hobbos" and made fun of her glasses! I heard them and told her about it! She doesn't even play the Oboe! I'm just saying everyone gets teased! And I'm sorry that you did!

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wow. me and my trans self dying over here

Answer 2

As for your parents, just come out to them!

As for your grandpa, maybe don’t tell him.