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I'm a fifth-grade girl and have no idea what my gender identity is. All  I know is that I have had crushes on girls since fourth grade when my friend came out to me and I realized that that explained a lot and that I didn't have to be straight. For a while I thought that I was bi, it worked perfectly, but then, I liked girls a ton more. That made me think I was omni but, I don't know, that just doesn't seem right. I hope that one of you guys can help.

                                                                                                       Sincerely,

                                                                                               a Marge Simpson wanna-be

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its ok. im BI  but i date guys then girls lol



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You can be bi but still lean towards the girl side more. If you still believe you have attraction to boys, then yeah, bi. If you don’t, lesbian!

You can also be bisexual but not attracted to both the main genders. While bi normally means you like the main genders, I actually think it means you like 2 genders. So if your feeling attraction to, lets say nonbinary people and girls, you could technically say bi.  

If your pansexual, you like people by personalities and not gender. I think if you like girls more, your sexuality label probably isn’t pan. Unless you believe you might like trans people, nonbinary, intersex, etc.

If you need more help, you should be able to talk to someone about this, like a school counselor. If you don’t want to because your too scared, and this is going to sound weird, go to an online app and make a friend in the pride community. I swear, if you vent out your feelings to a stranger, that stranger can be seriously helpful. JUST BE COMPLETELY SURE THAT THIS PERSON IS ACTUALLY NOT HOMOPHOBIC. Also, most the time the people flashing the pride thing are older, which also can be helpful.

I hope this helps, sorry for the long response.
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Thank you so much! This was incredibly helpful and I never thought about being bi as liking 2 genders that aren't necessarily the two main genders. You are seriously a life-saver. Thanks again,

a Marge Simpson wanna-be
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No problem! I’m really glad this helped!
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Irrelevant comment

**DANG. THE FRIENDLY NEIGHBORHOOD DUDE? GUYS THIS WAS ME BEFORE I HAD AN ACTUAL USERNAME LOL**
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Wait really-
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Yup. I was just roaming kidztalk. This happened to be something I came across.
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I’m also a girl in 5th grade.

If you’re lesbian, you’re a girl who likes girls. Sounds like you.

If you’re bisexual, you like both boys and girls.

If you’re pansexual (another words for omni?), you pretty much like people of multiple genders (example: a pan person who likes girls, boys, and non-binary people).
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Tell your doctor that you need help finding your identity



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