It took me just under a year to find out what I was.
8 years, 10 months: (aroace?) female, she/her
Back then, I didn’t support the LGBT+ community for some strange reason (not religion as I wasn’t religious). I think I hid my only answer showing that, but there’s probably more answers by me back then (2021).
9 years, 10 months: Straight ally female, she/her
I changed my thinkings and supported the community now. I wasn’t a part of it though.
10 years, 1 month: Maromantic xenogender, she/her
Apparently, I identified as a xenogender (cactus) person in a hotel room in Nevada. This only lasted for a few days because I drank more water and BOOM, my labels left me. Also, maromantic means attracted to males. Anyone can use that label, including straight females, men themselves, and non-binary people.
10 years, 2 months: Straight ally female, she/her
Basically the same as the 9 year one, but I already supported the community.
10 years, 7 months: Demiromantic demigirl, she/her
I didn’t feel completely like a girl, so I used the demigirl label. Only kept it for a day.
10 years, 11 months (present): Asexual demiromantic straight demiagender, she/her
If you didn’t notice by now, I used all 3 of my labels instead of the 1 I’m most comfortable with (asexual) (also, I don’t count straight). I’m gonna give a breakdown of my labels:
Asexual: It means you don’t experience any sexual attraction. (This label makes me straight and not straight at the same time)
Demiromantic: You only experience romantic attraction when you form a strong emotional bond with them.
Straight: Pretty much everyone who clicked on this post knows what it is. No need to explain.
Demiagender: I kind of feel agender, but not completely. I feel 100% girl and 50% agender, making me cis and trans at the same time.
In conclusion, I’m straight, not straight, cis, and trans all at once.
