Okay, who did it?
I was a perfectly normal, not-depressed and not-socially-anxious girl. Now I'm a nonbinary gfluid schnoodle with so many issues I can't even count em all.
WHO DID IT? WHERED MY GENDER GO?
ILL HUNT DOWN WHOEVER TOOK IT AND PELT YOU WITH THE FORCE OF A MILLION COOKIES-
Eh hem. Ignore that. Actually don't. That is my magnum opus; the reason for my existence.
Anyway, I thought I'd take the time to show y'all my gender journey as well as my sexuality journey. Enjoy :p
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9 years old: A straight female. She/her.
Didn't know what the LGBTQIA+ even was.
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10 years old: A lesbian female. She/they.
Learned about the community for the first time and realized I was part of it, though I was confused with my identity for years.
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11 years old: A pansexual demigirl. She/they.
Went through multiple phases (obviously not phases but idk what else to call em) where I was confused with my identity; this unfortunately was one of them.
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11.5 years old: An omnisexual genderfluid person. She/he/they.
Another odd identity crisis phase thing I had.
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12 years old (now): An aromantic, nonbinary and genderfluid person. He/they.
From she/her to he/they xD. Finally found labels I was comfortable with! It took literal years (about 2.5 to be exact), but I've found a small spark of happiness in myself and my identity (emphasis on small).
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I just made this to try to teach other users, mainly ones that are in the LGBTQIA+ community, that its okay to not know what you identify as. It took me 2 and a half years until I found labels I was comfortable with. Don't push yourself, its going to be okay. Say it with me, kids:
IM GUNNA BE OK BECAUSE IM A BEAUTIFUL LITLE SCHNOODLE-DOODLE
Did that get it out of your system? No?
Ok have a virtual cookie then! :
- Dino (he/they)