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Okay, who did it? 

I was a perfectly normal, not-depressed and not-socially-anxious girl. Now I'm a nonbinary gfluid schnoodle with so many issues I can't even count em all. 

WHO DID IT? WHERED MY GENDER GO?

ILL HUNT DOWN WHOEVER TOOK IT AND PELT YOU WITH THE FORCE OF A MILLION COOKIES-

Eh hem. Ignore that. Actually don't. That is my magnum opus; the reason for my existence. 

Anyway, I thought I'd take the time to show y'all my gender journey as well as my sexuality journey. Enjoy :p

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9 years old: A straight female. She/her. 

Didn't know what the LGBTQIA+ even was. 

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10 years old: A lesbian female. She/they. 

Learned about the community for the first time and realized I was part of it, though I was confused with my identity for years.

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11 years old: A pansexual demigirl. She/they. 

Went through multiple phases (obviously not phases but idk what else to call em) where I was confused with my identity; this unfortunately was one of them. 

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11.5 years old: An omnisexual genderfluid person. She/he/they.

 Another odd identity crisis phase thing I had. 

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12 years old (now): An aromantic, nonbinary and genderfluid person. He/they. 

From she/her to he/they xD. Finally found labels I was comfortable with! It took literal years (about 2.5 to be exact), but I've found a small spark of happiness in myself and my identity (emphasis on small).

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I just made this to try to teach other users, mainly ones that are in the LGBTQIA+ community, that its okay to not know what you identify as. It took me 2 and a half years until I found labels I was comfortable with. Don't push yourself, its going to be okay. Say it with me, kids: 

IM GUNNA BE OK BECAUSE IM A BEAUTIFUL LITLE SCHNOODLE-DOODLE

Did that get it out of your system? No? 

Ok have a virtual cookie then! : cookie

- Dino (he/they)




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My

Toddler to 6 yrs old - lesbian

7 yrs to 8 yrs 5 months- bisexual

8 yrs six months to 10 years old - straight

11 yrs  some month to some month - lesbian

11 yrs June to July - bisexual

What's wrong with me?  Why am I changing??  Am I straight? Am I bisexual? Am I lesbian? Help.
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Its 100% okay to have your gender identity/sexuality change like that. It happened to me and many others.

Not everyone knows what they identify as right away. It will come to you in due time. I reccomend doing research on more labels like pansexual or omnisexual!

I can't exactly tell you what you are, but I can 100% support and guide you. Feel free to ask me if you need anything; im always here to help others :)

- Dino (he/they)
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There's nothing wrong with you! It's totally fine to be questioning. And like Dino said, I can't tell you who you are. But you have my support and guidance and rainbows.

:)
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I could tell you my story that happened in the span of almost 2 years at this point and it might not have an end yet.

10 years old: Straight cis female. I barely had any knowledge of LGBTQIA.

10 and 11 months: Still straight and cis female but starting to think about LGBTQIA more.

11 and 4 months: Straight and cis female but best friend comes out as bi. Also the owl house made me a little too happy (LUMITYYY) so starting to think biquestioning.

11 and 5 months: Biquestioning cis female. Going back and forth between guys and girls, straight and bi.

11 and 7 months: Bi/pansexual cis female.

12 and 1 month: Aroace and cis gender female for like a day. I had a sorta emo crisis and hated everyone rip

12 and 2 months: Pansexual cis female

12 and 5 months: Polysexual cis female

12 and 7 months: Finally, FINALLY I have it. I’m an abrosexual cis female.

It took me a while but I think I got it now. I dunno if I’m gonna end up changing my label again. Although tbh as an Abrosexual I can safely say we are indecisive folks so maybe I just have no clue what I’m talking bout. Anyways, thanks for that cookie



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